Before the wedding ceremony we "bridemaids" came together and talked about our past , our friendship . There are so many memories we remembered from the year of 1995 until now with lots of cries and laughs together. We realized that most of our memories were about the guys and love sick situations :)) We drank so many Turkish coffee together and tried to read our fortune after all break-ups ..(it is like a tradition for us, all conversations ends with Turkish Coffe fortune telling :) Talking with best friends like going a psychologist , it always makes me relax and during negotiations I see the different views of the subject that helps me reach the solution instead of stuck in my own reality..
I did Reiki-2 to the bride's and bridemaids' favor with praying for their highest good . One of my friend especially requested me to do Reiki-1 for her. When I checked her chakras, I realized a blokage on her heart chakra and asked her if there is somebody who she hasn't forgiven yet . You may think of course you may guess this while you are close friends. she has a relationship now but the heartbreaker is from the past, far away past. She couldn't let him go although they are already seperate and worst she doesn't seem like willing to let him go .
Why?
Why she is still mad at him after 7 years?
Why she hasn't forgiven him yet?
How is she affected by not to let him go from her heart?
..
There are so many people who think that forgiveness is a kind of weakness.. If you forgive someone you don't want to see him/her sad or addicted to you again. When you realize it , you give up peaceful way and continue to hope & pray bad things would may happen to him/her and you gain your EGO again by this way.
Such a bad cliche ..
Your hopes like a boomerang , never forget it!
What you hope for other people, it comes back to you at any time you don't expect..
If you fail to get your lesson , your exam will last until you success it.
That's why people ask "why I always experience the same things , bad guys /girls always find me , all my relations ends with like that..( look at you , your life is your choice and your responsibilities , never blame anybody because of bad endings, YOU LET HIM/HER to do what he/she prefers to do to you..)
START with;
LET HIM GO!!
LET HER GO!!
LET BAD MEMORIES GO!!
LET 'JUST' GO!!
YOU WON'T LOOSE ANYTHING
BUT
YOU WILL GAIN YOUR SELF-ESTEEM!!
When you love something unconditionally , you will feel more free and happy you have never felt before..
So;
FORGIVE YOURSELF!!
FORGIVE PEOPLE!!
..although they hurt you indeed..
FORGIVE MOMENTS, MEMORIES THAT YOU CAN NOT CHANGE ANYMORE!!
..they might be happened due to gain your "life" lessons.. Find your lesson following the hidden clues as repated events in your life to get rid of them forever..
and TRUST YOURSELF..
IF YOU BELIVE THAT YOU DESERVE THE BEST, YOU WILL HAVE ..
but it is hard to guess sometimes, what is the best for you?
so again,
LET GO..
UNIVERSE LIKES FILL IN THE BLANKS.. ;)
If you would like to get a support from healing materials for your heart chackra;
GREEN and PINK colours are good for you.
...you may wear these colours or you may wear colourful accessories .
and PINK QUARTZ is the best
..without any metal ,carry it with you but it should be touch at your skin also ..
Some people use EFT methods to get rid out addicted emotions, it may be helpful ;
There are so many videos you can find in Youtube, I shared one of them , it 's really funny :))
Writing letters (don't send them, it is just share your emotions with yourself :) and punching pillows may help you to take you angry out. Don't supress negative emotions, they really cause bad effects not just on your soul but on your body .
All physical illnesses starts with negative suppressed emotions ,I will touch on this subject later.
LOVE YOU ALL!!
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