JEALOUSY

We have a watsapp group with my closest friends for sharing daily news for ourselves. Yesterday one them shared her instant emotion by messaging and tried to find what was the matter with her. My friend is beautiful, 30 years old lawyer and single by the way .After meeting with a pregnant friend on the street, she confused because of being happy for her friend's happiness and melancholic for herself at the same time and couldn't understand why this kind of complication occured.

 :) just kidding!

As you know, the best part is being aware of negative emotions. Confessing your real thoughts/ feelings is a big step and helps you for  having fast develop to solve the problem out.

We all shared our opinions at the group and mostly she read "Don't be panic, it is so undestandable. You want to be a mother , too. Just focus on happiness that you felt for her, it helps to increase your positive energy! " 

There would be so many reasons which make you confused like this. We all want somenthing that we don't own and sometimes we really may not have a chance to own it ,either. At this point ,I have to say that "please don't get your positive energy, your happiness , your self-confidence down by comparing your life  with  the other 's ."It 's not just  wasting your time but also harmful for you.

The only thing that you should focus on is you and your life.

Always start with remembering things that you are satisifed.

What do you have? (basically I thank for breathe- in and breathe- out in a good health conditons everyday , I know there are so many people can not do this basic need easily)

Be thankful.

If you have wishes , make  plans towards  this aim .

If you have plans, take a step for it and do your best consistently.

There is two result ;

1- You win and get what you wish for. CONGRATS :) If you are ready and your wish is proper for your highest favor , of course the  result will be success , no doubt!

2- Still waiting for the result that you wish for. I think the best thing we can do is LETting GO and LETting GOD!

(You may say Let Universe,Let Buddha,Let if flow.. It doesn't matter, but don't insist on the subject and don't feed negative emotions like "jealousy" )

Everything happens for a good reason for us,

It may not be seen obviously at the beginning but after a while we  have a chance to see the whole puzzle and  thank for it . We are student at our lives to find our lessons and pass the exams. Being patient and being thankful are like keys, save your keys in your lifetime!

On the other hand, being happy with someone's jealousy on you may be support your arrogance.It is also not an usefull energy for you . Proud of yourself ,love people unconditionaly and let them free by thinking of their highest good.

What you sow is what you reap!

When we learn being happy is not just related with having good relations, million dollars, long legs without cellulite, open-top car... When we learn being happy starts with "us" and continues until "we" die without any variables.. We  will have to say goodbye to some closest feelings , not closest friends ;)

LOVE YOU ALL!